100 Best Solo Date Ideas To Show Yourself Some Self Love

Going on a solo date is not just a trend, it’s a powerful act of self-love and self-care.

In a world that often celebrates relationships and companionship, taking the time to indulge in solo adventures is a beautiful way to reconnect with oneself.

Whether it’s finding solace in the pages of a captivating book at a cozy café, exploring local art in a quiet gallery, or simply enjoying the warmth of the sun during a solo picnic, these moments are about celebrating the incredible person you are.

We believe that solo dates can be a time of healing, love, and self-discovery. These 100 solo date ideas you’ll discover in this post range from exciting and adventurous to simple and budget-friendly.

From the simple pleasure of a nature walk in a local park to the excitement of a DIY home movie night with homemade popcorn, each solo date idea is a gentle reminder that self-love doesn’t require anything too fancy. So let’s jump right in!

How do you enjoy a solo date?

Whether you’re wandering through lively neighborhoods, treating yourself to some yummy bites at that new spot, or catching a mesmerizing sunset at a nearby park, you can always small ways to enjoy a solo date.

We get it, though. It’s not easy going on a solo date if you haven’t intentionally tried to go on date with yourself before. But we encourage you to take the pressure off having this magical, perfect solo date. Just start small!

🌟 Whether that's savoring a cup of coffee at a coffee shop or reading your favorite book at a park, celebrate that you're taking time to spend by yourself.🌟 #solodateideas

What’s the point of a solo date?

Though we talk a lot on our blog about date ideas for couples, we will never not advocate for solo dates. There is so much beauty in going on a solo date by yourself. Going on solo dates helps you to learn how to cultivate a beautiful appreciation of self-love.

We’ve heard from many women who struggle to find peace being alone. Thus, they seek it in relationships with men as a source of comfort. We’re guilty of this, too. When we struggle to find peace within ourselves, it can be tempting to find it in other people.

That’s why we also advocate for going on solo dates by yourself even if you’re single or in a relationship.

What if we can cultivate a sense of appreciation and self-love from within? That’s the beauty of going on solo dates. You learn to do that for yourself!

Are solo dates therapeutic?

Solo dates are incredibly therapeutic! When you go in with the intention of going on a solo date, you may start to realize things about yourself. Sitting with yourself in silence may feel uncomfortable, but that’s why it’s so therapeutic as well. Slowly, you learn to enjoy being in your own presence.

Pro tip: Before you read this list of solo date ideas, we encourage you to make the most out of these dates. One way to do that is by PUTTING AWAY YOUR PHONE. AH, WE KNOW! As hard as it is, your phone will only distract you from getting to experience the fullness of being alone in your own company. You got this! 🌈✨

100 Solo Date Ideas To Take Yourself On

Explore the aisles of a bookshop, discovering new reads.
Pack your favorite snacks and enjoy a solo picnic.
Immerse yourself in creativity at a local art gallery.
Head to the beach or lake with a good book and some sunshine.
Savor a cup of coffee at a cozy café.

Have a DIY spa night.
Have a stay-in movie night at home.
Try a self-compassion activity to quiet your inner critic.
Head to a new museum.
Try a new restaurant or cuisine.

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Head to a quiet place like a park and journal.
Grab a film camera and take artsy photos of yourself and the world around you.
Enjoy a performance or concert solo.

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Go on a 30 minute walk outdoors. (Sunlight can really boost your mental health)
Practice yoga outdoors in your backyard or at a park.
Learn a new recipe at home.
Explore a local flea market.
Go on a morning bike ride around your neighborhood.

solo date ideas outside — Credits: @melindabee

Start a DIY creative project in your spare time.
Explore a historical landmark or site near your city.
Be daring and try skydiving.
Go in a hot air balloon and experience the thrill of it.
Challenge yourself on an indoor rock climbing session!
Try a zip-lining adventure if there’s a place near you!
Embrace the outdoors with a solo camping expedition.

Go glamping and get the full experience. (What is glamping? Here’s your ultimate guide.)
Go on a solo road trip!
Go swimming at a nearby public pool.
Treat yourself to a fancy dining experience near you.
Go on a solo mountain biking adventure.
Take up a surfing lesson on your own.

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Throw on some of your favorite music and let yourself feel the music.
Go kayaking on your own!
Go on a solo horseback ride.

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Go on a weekend getaway just on your own. Just make sure you let someone know where you’ll be! 🙂
Bake something yummy for yourself and others.
Visit a place you’ve been wanting to see for so long.
Journal your thoughts and feelings.

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Practice a meditation or mindfulness exercise for relaxation.
Enjoy a “no social media” day.
Create a vision board and visualize your goals and aspirations.

Wake up early and head to the beach to have some quiet time.
Volunteer at a local charity.
Try a new workout class.
Try a Paint By Numbers kit for adults and have fun with it.
Cook a special meal just for you.

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Use this aromatherapy set and make your room smell good.
Attend an open mic night and have fun.
Take a solo nature walk at a local park or hiking area.
Compliment yourself 5 times for one day.

Visit a zoo or nearby farm.
Try an acupuncture session. (It’s a lot less painful than you think!)
Drink your favorite fruit smoothie and read a good book.
Visit a botanical garden near you.

Create a fun song playlist that makes you feel empowered.
Try a home decorating or organizing project.
Visit a vintage thrift store and just try on clothes for fun.
Engage in a coloring book to relax and de-stress.
Volunteer at a local library.

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Go on a solo trip abroad.
Have a solo karaoke session at home.
Practice yoga in a peaceful outdoor setting.
Participate in a virtual workshop of a topic you’re interested in!
Hug yourself for 30 seconds.
Head to a pet store.
Attend a local community event.
Visit a plant nursery and bring home a new plant companion.

Take a leisurely walk or find a quiet spot to enjoy nature.
Find a scenic spot to watch the sunrise or sunset.
Build an indoor fort and watch a classic romantic comedy.
Attend local community events or festivals.
Explore thrift stores for unique finds on a budget.
Follow a free online class for some exercise and relaxation.
Enjoy the vibrant atmosphere and explore fresh produce.
Create a cozy picnic at the park.

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Have a fun, creative art session at home.
Lie back and gaze at the clouds, letting your mind wander.
Listen to an interesting podcast episode while going on a walk.
Create a list of things you want to do before you turn “X”
Work on a personal project you’ve been putting off.
Journal about things you’ve been loving lately (a book, a song, a place, etc)

Take a sunset bike ride around your neighborhood or a nearby trail.
Look at yourself in the mirror and give yourself a 1 minute positive, self-love talk.
Challenge yourself to complete this 1,000pc puzzle, while listening to your favorite music.
Pamper yourself with a relaxing spa day.

Try a free online tutorial to learn something new (it could be anything).
Explore a local restaurant to support a small business.
Go to a museum on its free entry day.

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Do your devotionals at a quiet place like the park or beach.
Head for an evening walk to admire the stars on a clear night.
Experiment with digital art using free apps or software.
Read a personal growth book that you’ve been wanting to read.
Follow a workout challenge routine without any equipment.
Practice deep breathing exercises for 1 minute or longer.
Tackle a small organizing project you’ve been needing to do.

Bring a sketchpad and draw in a local park.
Attend an online free course that you might take interest in.
Attend an upcoming event outside of your city just for fun!
Reflect on your achievements and aspirations.
Celebrate who you are – your imperfections, beauty, strengths, and weaknesses!

Final thoughts about solo date ideas

We know that going on solo dates can be scary at first. It’s okay to be afraid in the beginning. A suggestion is to start small. Don’t overwhelm yourself with doing multiple solo date ideas per week.

🌟 A gentle reminder: The goal with going on a solo date idea is to practice cultivating self-love within yourself. #selflove 🌟

Pick one solo date idea from this list and schedule it into your calendar just like you would for a date with someone else. It’s good to schedule your solo dates into a calendar to make a commitment to yourself that you’re going to do it!

We suggest going on an intentional solo date every week to practice cultivating that self-love and being more comfortable by yourself. 🙂 Don’t forget to reflect on how your date by yourself went! Reflecting upon your experiences will make you feel more accomplished and proud of yourself.